The H-1B visa programme, a vital pipeline for U.S. employers to recruit skilled professionals in fields like technology, engineering, and healthcare, is facing increased scrutiny and restrictions. Indian nationals constitute over 70% of H-1B holders, making them the most affected by recent policy shifts.
Among the most controversial changes is an executive order from President Donald Trump that eliminates birthright citizenship for children born in the U.S. to parents on temporary visas, such as the H-1B. Previously, these children were granted automatic U.S. citizenship—a right now revoked unless at least one parent holds a green card or is a U.S. citizen. The policy has added a new layer of stress for families already grappling with job insecurity, uncertain visa renewals, and years-long waits for permanent residency.
Amid this situation, a Reddit post by an Indian engineer struck a chord. The anonymous user shared his predicament, after spending most of his career in the U.S., he recently received a job offer in India that comes with decent pay and is located in his native state. Currently, he lives in the U.S. with his wife and two young children, one of whom is in kindergarten. Although his current U.S. job just covers household expenses with little to no savings, he values the work-life balance and quality of life he enjoys with his family there.
However, the engineer expressed concern about relocating to India, citing longer work hours, reduced personal time, and an overall decline in lifestyle quality. “I like the family time and weekend joys with my family,” he wrote. “I may not get that in India where the work demands more additional work time.”
His post triggered a wave of responses online. One commenter said, “It’s a hard choice, and honestly, no one can really help you decide. You just have to commit to one option, not look back, and accept that you can’t have the best of both worlds.” Another suggested considering the long-term impact on children, “Move back before the kids grow up. Getting adjusted will be difficult as they get older.” Others took a more financial view. “If you can’t increase your salary in the U.S. and can live comfortably in India with additional savings, then it makes sense to move back,”* a user noted, adding, *“Your expenses will only rise once both kids start school.”
Some emphasised the cultural and emotional benefits of returning to India and stated, “India is the happening place. I’d want to connect with my dear ones and let my kids enjoy family affection. I would think long term and switch back.”