Veteran Bollywood actor Kabir Bedi, whose life has unfolded across continents and industries, opened up about his personal highs and lows on Siddharth Kannan’s podcast. From four marriages to professional disappointments and a heartbreaking loss, Bedi shared rare insights into the events and people who shaped his journey.
The Women Who Defined His Journey
His first marriage was to dancer and model Protima Bedi, a free-spirited personality known for defying conventions. “Protima loved sensationalising things… she loved shocking people. She enjoyed being in the news,” Kabir recalled. He also spoke of a striking moment that made headlines: “There must’ve been photographers called. She said, ‘There’s nothing wrong with streaking. The human body is beautiful. Love it, live with it.’” Despite their separation, Kabir said they remained connected as co-parents: “When she passed away, I was deeply affected.”
Bedi’s second marriage was with British designer Susan Humphreys, who now goes by the name Ishhel. “There wasn’t any upheaval… but we were a mismatch. I realised I made a mistake,” he said. Their son Adam lived with Kabir in Mumbai for five years. “Where there’s a child involved, the relationship never ends.”
Turbulent Times and Lasting Bonds
His third wife, TV presenter Nikki Bedi, found herself at the center of a media storm due to a controversial guest on her talk show. “A guest said he’d written a book that abused Gandhi. Nikki didn’t say it herself, but she was blamed.” Though the incident caused a stir, their relationship remained amicable. “All my ex-wives, I’ve maintained great friendships with them,” Kabir added.
Kabir married Parveen Dusanj, 29 years his junior, in 2016. “I never felt the age gap. I’ve always celebrated my 50th birthday every year,” he joked.
He also reflected on his Hollywood stint, calling it a missed opportunity. “The kind of fame I wanted there… I never got that.” Struggles with finances and the tragic loss of his son Siddharth brought him back to India.
Kabir summed up his life lessons: “If you give respect, take responsibility, and communicate with dignity, you’ll get that back. When pain passes, what’s left defines the relationship.”