Oscar-winning music composer A R Rahman and his wife, Saira, have officially separated after 29 years of marriage. The couple, who tied the knot in 1995 through an arranged marriage, have cited significant emotional strain as the primary reason behind their decision to part ways.
In a heartfelt statement released on Tuesday night, Saira confirmed the split, stating that although they shared a deep love for one another, persistent tensions and difficulties in their relationship had created an insurmountable gap. The couple’s emotional strain had made it impossible for either party to repair their bond, leading them to this difficult choice.
“After many years of marriage, Mrs. Saira has made the painful decision to separate from her husband, Mr. A. R. Rahman,” the statement read. “Despite the love they have shared, the challenges and emotional toll have created a rift neither feels able to mend. This decision has not come lightly, and it has been made with great emotional anguish.”
Saira requested the public’s understanding and privacy during this challenging time as she navigates the complexities of this emotional chapter. She expressed her desire to move forward with dignity while respecting the privacy of her family.
The Journey of AR Rahman and Saira
The couple’s relationship began in 1995 when Rahman, at the height of his career, decided to marry through an arranged match. During an interview with Simi Garewal, Rahman shared how his mother played an instrumental role in finding his life partner, as his busy professional life left him little time to pursue a traditional courtship.
“I was busy with my work, making films like Rangeela in Bombay. I didn’t have time to look for a bride, so I told my mother to find someone for me,” Rahman had said. He described his ideal partner as a “simple” woman who would support his career and not complicate his already hectic lifestyle.
Together, Rahman and Saira have three children—two daughters, Khatija and Rahima, and a son, Ameen Rahman. Throughout their years of marriage, Rahman has often spoken about the balance between his demanding music career and family life, crediting Saira for her support and understanding. However, despite their shared history and the love they had for each other, the emotional strain they endured over the years became too great, leading to their separation. It is unclear what the future holds for both Rahman and Saira, but they have made it clear that they are committed to handling the situation with grace and respect.