Here’s a guide on how to get those amazing orgasms and know your body better

Aug 09, 2023 Shamayita Dey

International Female Orgasm Day had its debut on August 5, 2007, right in the heart of Esperantina, Brazil. The visionary behind this groundbreaking celebration was none other than Councilman Arimateio Dantas.

Self-exploration is key

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Communication matters

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The power of mindfulness

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Foreplay isn’t just a warm-up

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Embrace your fantasies

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Experimentation is the spice of life

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Solo play can be empowering

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The clitoral conundrum

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Relaxation leads to elevation

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Practice makes perfect

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