Table for one: How India is learning the art of being happily alone

Solitude is becoming the new luxury, reshaping the way we eat, travel, unwind, and even where we live. Businesses, in turn, are giving them company by offering standalone experiences

How Solo Dining, Travel, and Entertainment are Redefining Luxury and Leisure in India / istocks
How Solo Dining, Travel, and Entertainment are Redefining Luxury and Leisure in India / istocks

On a recent Sunday afternoon, I booked a single ticket for Neeraj Ghaywan-directed Homebound at a PVR near my house. The theatre wasn’t full, but what struck me wasn’t the empty seats but it was how many people were there alone. A woman two rows ahead had a bucket of popcorn to herself, scrolling through her phone before the lights dimmed. A man, likely in his 40s, had settled into a recliner with a tray of cheesy nachos. No one looked twice. They didn’t at least.

Ten years ago, I might have hesitated to go to the plays solo, just as I would have felt self-conscious eating momos alone at Dolma Aunty’s stall in Lajpat Nagar. But today, that pause has evaporated. More of us are doing things alone, not out of necessity, but out of choice.

Take a friend of mine, Anjali Raj, 27, a freelance content writer. Earlier this year, she took her first solo trip to Jibhi in Himachal Pradesh. “The purpose was simple: to treat myself,” she says. “I’d booked a hostel in Tirthan that got cancelled at the last minute, so I found this lovely treehouse in Jibhi. I had no fixed plans and that’s become my mantra now: not to plan.”

She spent her days walking through the town, exploring nearby trails, and sharing bonfire evenings with others. “I was supposed to stay four days and ended up staying eight,” she laughs. “I’d always wanted to take a solo trip but was held back by vague fears. Now, after doing it, there’s this feeling of accomplishment, that even if something goes wrong, I can handle it.”

But she did not develop the taste of being alone suddenly. “Before Jibhi, I’d already started going to movies and events alone. It felt comforting. But after the trip, I feel liberated. When you do things on your own, using your own money to treat yourself, not by shopping or eating fancy food, but by experiencing something, you feel content. Not just happy, but content.” That word, content, captures the spirit of this shift better than any statistic.

Another friend, Anurag Sharma, 30, a software engineer at a multinational company in Gurugram, loves spending Saturday afternoons hopping between cafes, tasting new kinds of matcha and reading anime. He calls it his “reset ritual”. “Most of my friends are out of Delhi-NCR now but that should not stop me from enjoying things and have a great weekend,” he says. And I’ve realised, somewhere between solo lunches and weekday movie matinees, that being alone in public has quietly lost its awkwardness.

Across India’s cities, this quiet revolution of people choosing solitude without apology is reshaping how we eat, travel, unwind, and even where we live. The “table for one” has become a symbol of leisure instead of loneliness.

A cultural shift

If you’ve walked into a cafe on a weekday morning in Delhi’s Khan Market, you’ve probably noticed it too—one person tucked into a corner booth, laptop open, flat white in hand. Or in Gurugram’s Cyber Hub, professionals taking themselves out for lunch between meetings.

Restaurants are catching up fast. At District by Zomato, the brand’s going-out platform, solo diners have nearly doubled in the past nine months, says CEO Rahul Ganjoo. And they’re not shy about spending.

“Solo diners spend about 1.5 times more than groups, around Rs 1,676 per person compared to about Rs 1,100 for group diners. They make more deliberate, quality-focused choices,” he explains.

Interestingly, this isn’t just an urban elite trend. Ganjoo adds that solo dining is more common in Tier-2 cities than in metros. “It’s a broader cultural shift, professionals living independently, confidence in going out alone. At District, we built our ‘Table for One’ feature to make the experience seamless, not to single anyone out.”

You see that same pattern everywhere, in restaurants that no longer question a single reservation, in cafes that add counter seating facing the street, in waiters who nod when you say, “Just one.”

And while solitude used to be a weekend indulgence, Ganjoo says it’s now part of the weekday routine. “Monday through Thursday have the highest solo share. Breakfast, especially, is the most striking, over 25% of covers are solo diners.”

Possibly, this boils down to just comfort with oneself. About knowing you can sit with yourself and not feel watched, along with keeping the whole chicken burger to yourself.

Pack light, live large

Travel, perhaps more than anything else, captures the new solo spirit.

Rikant Pittie, CEO of EaseMyTrip, says solo travel is among their fastest-growing segments post-pandemic. “Before Covid, it was niche. Now, we’re seeing steady growth, especially among Gen-Z travellers,” he says. “They’re redefining what travel means, seeking independence, cultural immersion, and personal growth.”

Among solo Indian travellers, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, and Sri Lanka top the international list, while Goa, Rishikesh, and Coorg dominate domestically. And it’s not just men in backpacks anymore. “Solo women travel has risen by more than 130% in two years,” says Pittie. “They make up over 40% of the segment and value safety, convenience, and flexibility but they also want adventure.”
MakeMyTrip’s Jasmeet Singh, chief commercial officer, holidays and experiences, agrees. “The 20-40 age group still leads the way, but we’re seeing more travellers in their 40s, 50s, even 60s going solo,” he says. “There’s also a tilt towards premiumisation, quality stays, trusted cabs, curated add-ons. It’s not about budget anymore; it’s about comfort and control.”

And what’s striking is how travel itself has become a kind of self-expression. Thomas Cook’s Rajeev Kale says solo travellers today aren’t chasing itineraries but chasing experiences. “They’re learning Fado in Portugal, Muay Thai in Thailand, doing wellness retreats in Rishikesh. They’re not rushing through checklists, they’re staying longer, diving deeper,” he says.

SOTC Travel’s SD Nandakumar sees something similar: “Young India, i.e, millennials, Gen Z, and especially women, are seeking freedom and self-exploration. Many are choosing mono-destinations and experiences like diving, trekking, or local gastronomy. It’s a move from transactional to transformational travel.”

Hotels are feeling it too. At Jaypee Palace Hotel & Convention Centre in Agra, Vice President Hari Sukumar says solo guests have risen 35-40% compared to pre-pandemic levels. “The motivations vary, workcations, wellness breaks, or weekend escapes. What’s changed is intent. These are not people travelling alone by default; they’re choosing it deliberately,” he says.

Jaypee’s properties have adapted in kind with better-lit pathways, visible but discreet 24×7 security, co-working lounges, reading corners, and dining spaces that feel open yet private. “Our teams are trained to be attentive without intruding,” Sukumar explains. “It’s about connection without pressure.”

Spending habits also tell a story. “Solo travellers spend more per night than couples when normalised for occupancy,” Sukumar says. “They’re more likely to book premium rooms, invest in spa sessions, and choose curated itineraries. They may travel for shorter durations, but they spend more per day. It’s not about economising, it’s about intentional indulgence.”

That indulgence, he believes, reflects a larger truth: “Solitude has become a new form of luxury. The ability to move at your own pace, to disconnect, that’s precious now. We call it ‘dignified solitude’ validating solo travel as aspirational, not circumstantial.”

In the wild serenity of Jim Corbett, Aahana Resort has been seeing something similar. Avni Tripathi, the resort’s director and chief marketing officer, says solo guests are now a distinct and valued presence. “These are people seeking mindful getaways like peace, space, and authenticity,” she says. “At Aahana, a 500 sq-ft-room is just the foundation of comfort, not the definition of luxury. True indulgence lies in slowing down, eating fresh produce from our gardens, taking forest walks, or reading by the pool.”

The resort, spread across 13.5 acres, is designed around privacy and calm. “A dedicated concierge and activities team personalise every stay. For solo guests, we curate private yoga sessions, forest treks, or dinners under the stars,” Tripathi says.  Interestingly, many of Aahana’s solo guests return later with family or friends. “They tell us it feels like home,” Tripathi smiles. “Because whether you come alone or with others, our aim is the same — to create experiences that feel rooted and real.”

Ticket for one, please

If the rise of solo dining and travel signals a shift in how Indians spend their leisure time, the entertainment industry is witnessing its own version of that change.

A spokesperson for BookMyShow, India’s leading entertainment destination, says the act of enjoying entertainment alone is no longer unusual, it’s becoming a quiet statement of individuality.

“Across the world, solo entertainment is no longer seen as an exception. From fans attending global festivals on their own to moviegoers catching a film, the act of experiencing entertainment solo has become an expression of freedom,” the spokesperson says. “In India too, that shift is becoming more visible as audiences grow comfortable exploring what they love, without waiting for company.” On BookMyShow, single-ticket bookings have been rising steadily across categories. Within live entertainment alone, over 800,000 solo fans attended shows last year, already crossing 850,000 in 2025 (till Q3). Cinema leads the pack, with one Hyderabad fan watching 99 films solo in 2023, while another set a record of 221 films in 2024.

The platform’s Throwback 2024 report found that 39% of Gen Z and 49% of millennials attended live events solo, numbers that have held steady this year. “It’s no longer about convenience,” the spokesperson adds. “It’s intent, audiences are curating experiences that belong entirely to them.”

Interestingly, 470,000 fans travelled outside their home cities for concerts last year, many alone. It’s a sign that solo entertainment now transcends geography. “Entertainment has always been about connection,” the spokesperson says. “Sometimes with others, and sometimes with oneself. India’s finding a new rhythm that celebrates both.”

Cinemas, too, are seeing solitude go mainstream. PVR INOX’s Aamer Bijli calls it “cinema as self-care.” “The rise in single-seat bookings shows how audiences now see moviegoing as an individual experience, something joyful, personal,” he says.

Bijli says the pattern cuts across generations. “When we re-released The Godfather, we saw solo viewers across ages, from Baby Boomers to Gen Z. Anime titles like Demon Slayer have also drawn strong solo attendance. For older audiences, weekday screenings are popular, supported by Seniors’ Day Mondays.”

And these viewers aren’t going cheap. Many choose premium formats like IMAX and 4DX, and spend more on food and recliners. “For Gen Z, theatres are evolving into their ‘third space’, a place beyond home and work to unwind. Our M5 cinema in Bengaluru integrates film, food, and lifestyle, creating a space for everyone, families, couples, and solos alike,” adds Bijli.

Home, sweet (solo) home

The solo mindset doesn’t stop at leisure. It’s shaping where we live too.

In India’s metros, one in five new apartments is now bought by a single occupant, according to Anarock. Many are professionals prioritising mobility and lifestyle over family size. The National Statistics Office’s Youth in India Report 2022 has shown that 23% of young people are not interested in marriage. Earlier, this figure was 17.2%. Another recent data from the National Family Health Survey indicates that the divorce rate in India has surged by 35% over the past five years.

“Single Indians are buying and renting homes at a far faster rate than married couples,” says Santhosh Kumar, vice chairman of ANAROCK Group. “A third of urban homebuyers are single women now. The demand for compact units like studios and 1BHKs is soaring in cities like Gurugram, Pune, and Navi Mumbai.”

According to Anarock, metros like Bengaluru, Hyderabad and Pune see a lot of traction from solo buyers, mainly in the `75 lakh–`2 crore segment. In Tier-2 cities like Kochi, Jaipur and the Chandigarh tri-city, there is a lot of demand for homes priced between `1-2 crore, with the `2 crore-and-above bracket surging by more than a 100% year-on-year.

Solo buyers, he says, are pragmatic and design-conscious. “They want homes near work hubs, with good security and amenities.” These buyers usually avail of smaller loans like `30-75 lakh and also pick shorter tenures of 10-15 years.

Developers are paying attention. Tribeca Developers’ CEO, Rajat Khandelwal, says the solo buyer isn’t a stopgap customer anymore.
“We’re seeing single professionals, men and women, buying independently, prioritising independence and lifestyle. They want compact formats that are easy to manage but stylish. Many look beyond affordability; they value ROI, design, and community.” Tribeca’s ‘Trilive’ project, managed studio apartments designed for this segment, offers privacy with shared services and professional upkeep. “It’s independence with support,” Khandelwal says. The same pattern repeats across sectors: solo consumers spend more per head, choose higher-quality experiences, and expect flexibility. Whether it’s a movie seat, a resort room, or an apartment key, the act of doing it alone no longer feels incomplete.

Joy of own company

If there’s one thread connecting all this from solo dining and travel to housing and entertainment, it’s the quiet confidence that solitude brings.

The solo consumer isn’t anti-social, they’re truly selectively social as we read on their Instagram bios as well. They’ll go to a concert with friends one week and take themselves out for dinner the next. They’re not rejecting connection but choosing it on their own terms. And maybe that’s the truest sign of change. Because when I think about Anjali on a solo bus to Himachal, or Anurag tasting his latest matcha, or myself watching a matinee alone on a Monday, what links us isn’t isolation but it’s comfort. We’re part of a generation that’s learned to make space for ourselves. To take a table for one and fill it with presence. And India’s cities are learning to make room for that too with cafes that don’t rush you, cinemas that seat you alone without fuss, hotels that don’t assume two guests, and developers who understand that one key can still unlock a home.

It’s the smallest change with the biggest meaning: that being alone doesn’t have to feel lonely anymore. It can, instead, feel quietly whole.

This article was first uploaded on November twenty-nine, twenty twenty-five, at forty minutes past nine in the night.