1. Rajya Sabha MP Rajeev Chandrasekhar’s open letter to Gurmehar Kaur

Rajya Sabha MP Rajeev Chandrasekhar’s open letter to Gurmehar Kaur

20-year-old Gurmehar Kaur, daughter of 1999 Kargil martyr Captain Mandeep Singh, found herself right at the centre of a social media storm when someone dug out a year old video of her holding a placard saying Pakistan did not kill her father, the war did.

By: | Updated: March 3, 2017 6:01 PM
gurmehar kaur, rajya sabha mp open letter, rajeev chandrsekhar ope letter to gurmehar kaur, gurmehar kaur open letter, open letter gurmehar kaur Earlier today, Rajya Sabha MP Rajeev Chandrasekhar wrote an open letter to Gurmehar Kaur. (IE)

20-year-old Gurmehar Kaur, daughter of 1999 Kargil martyr Captain Mandeep Singh, found herself right at the centre of a social media storm when someone dug out a year old video of her holding a placard saying Pakistan did not kill her father, the war did. She found her video being mocked by former cricketer Virender Sehwag, Randeep Hooda among other prominent celebrities. Even MoS Kiren Rijiju went ahead and said that her mind was polluted and she was being politically motivated. To which, veteran lyricist Javed Akhtar had told Rijiju that he knew who was polluting the latter’s mind. Meanwhile, Yogeshwar Dutt and the Phogat sisters had also criticised Kaur and spoken about nationalism at a length. The controversy had become uglier when trolls threatened the 20-yaer-old with rape and murder.

Earlier today, Rajya Sabha MP Rajeev Chandrasekhar wrote an open letter to Gurmehar through IE. The letter is as follows:

Dear Gurmehar,

Let me start this letter to you by saying I have always held martyrs and their families with the highest respect. As the son of a veteran, I have lived my entire childhood among men, women and families who served and sacrificed. The service of Martyrs to the Nation is unparalleled and their sacrifices supreme. From Major Som Nath Sharma the first recipient of the Param Vir Chakra who laid down his life in the 1948 Indo-Pak War at the age of 24, 2/Lt Arun Khetarpal at 21 – and then who can forget Captain Saurabh Kalia, Captain Vijayant Thapar and Captain Vikram Batra – all a few years older than you are today. I have had the honour and experience of engaging with families of numerous Bravehearts. It is true that most have no hate or revenge in their hearts – just a desire that others don’t suffer the losses that they did. And so let there be no doubt in your mind that most in our country consider you and your family as worthy of great respect – for the service and sacrifice of your father Captain Mandeep Singh. What you have gone through, the painful experiences in your life, no child or family should. Losing a father, a husband, son or brother in service of the nation, is a tragedy for any family. And for that, there is only humble salutations and unstinting support that we can offer.

So I consider it unacceptable that anyone in this great nation of ours would think of anything other than only protecting and supporting you and your family – let alone harassment and violence of the kind in recent days by some on social media. Let me assure you of my complete commitment to your total safety and to your right to speak your mind. That commitment is unambiguous and total – I assure you!

University is a point in life when you are free to experiment with thoughts and ideas, including idealism. So here are two points that I want to leave you to think about as well.

The first is the point you make about absolving Pakistan – while I understand your desire for peace, here is where you are wrong about Pakistan. It is not enough to blame killings today on an amorphous concept of war and look for peace. Over 15,000 people alone have lost their lives to terror attacks and so thousands of families have suffered and lost because of violence exported from across the border – into our territory, into our homes. This is the stark reality we must understand. Many thousands of our men in security forces have laid down their lives while protecting against these terror attacks.

No one wants war – we do not want violence after all India was born out of Mahatma Gandhi’s non-violence movement. But sometimes threats of violence and indeed violence are thrust on us and the nation’s leaders can’t be found wanting then. The 1962 conflict with China should teach us, what happens when seemingly sound moral positions run into nations with a strong force led doctrines of expansion.
Let me quote what President Obama said in his Nobel Peace prize speech in 2009, that may explain the conundrum – between this desire for peace and the need to be also strong militarily to defend ourselves.

“Violence never brings permanent peace. It solves no social problem. It merely creates new and more complicated ones. I am the living testimony of the moral force of non-violence and there is nothing weak, nothing passive, nothing naïve in the creed of Gandhi and King. But I cannot be guided by their examples alone. I face the world as it is, and cannot stand idle in the face of threats to my people. For make no mistake: evil does exist in the world. A non-violent movement could not have halted Hitler’s Armies. Negotiations alone can’t convince Al Qaeda to lay down their arms. To say that force is sometimes necessary is not a call to cynicism – it is recognition of history; the imperfections of man and the limits of reason.”

So that’s the thrust of the point I want to make to you. I admire your peace activism. But a desire for peace (even one as deeply felt as yours) will not make the terrorists in Pakistan surrender their weapons. In your desire for peace, we cannot forget that Nations do have an obligation to bear arms to defend themselves, defend their people. You father did just that. He and all the others like him fought to protect these values. They didn’t fight because they like war or hated the people in front of them – they served and sacrificed because they loved India and the Indians behind them.

So while I also share your desire for peace – peace doesn’t come from simply desiring it, especially with Pakistan. We (both Indians and Pakistanis) must cause the Pakistan state to change its state policy of supporting terror and doing so by using all possible options and not simply begging or pleading for peace.

The second point is about debating Political issues. I am a strong advocate of young Indians being more politically active and aware. So if you choose to be active politically, more power to you. I am confident that you would carry with you, the values and principles that your father and family hold dear about our country and nationhood. But be aware that politics is as much about aligning with those who agree with you on some issues and at the same time ensuring that the same people don’t have beliefs that are counter to your other core values like national integrity, etc. Also be warned, entering a political debate also means opening yourself to criticism and arguments – this should be expected. It’s sometimes unpleasant and noisy – but that’s the nature of the beast as it is today. So brace and prepare yourself as you plunge in.

I for one believe deeply in our Nation and its younger generation. I hope this letter helps you regain your confidence and composure after the last few difficult days. I also hope through this letter, you are also a little better informed about how others view Pakistan and its terror exports and the need to secure our people.

I wish you and your family the very best.

Jai Hind!

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  1. C
    Mar 4, 2017 at 7:52 am
    very mature advise , not as an MP but as a citizen with similar background and exposed to larger view of life
    1. S
      sudhindra gargesa
      Mar 5, 2017 at 5:12 am
      Good advice. This is a case pure ideology without understanding the consequences. Gurmehr has to realise what is good and what is bad. Students in universities should instrospect and not get carried away by most dangerous species- politicians, who will sell their mothers for a vote.

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