like my phone. Why canít people be like phones?
Person 6: That would be so cool. Then we could turn them off when we are tired of them.
Person 2: (Giggling) And if they improved the vibrate option, we might even be able to date them.
Frivolous, fantastic and funny as this snippet was, it is telling of a particular shift in the ways we relate to the gadgets that we live with. The conversation is reminiscent of the earlier days of consumer electronics, when the popular joke was about how if only there were instruction manuals that came with people, life would have been so much easier to deal with. Because we know that it is the human that is unpredictable, whimsical, inscrutable and bizarre. Machines never make mistakes. In fact, anybody who remembers the early history of computing will remember that magnificent term called GIGO ó Garbage In, Garbage Out. If a computer makes a mistake, it is because we programmed it do that. We fed it garbage, and so it gave garbage out. Which is very different from how human beings parse and process things. This desire to have predictable, easy to live with, controllable humans has also been at the basis of science fiction dystopias like Stepford Wives, where a closed community of people tried to design the perfect wives by replacing them with robotic cybrids.
But in all those earlier fantasies and nightmares, there has always been a common core of relating to technologies ó they were either about desiring to be less human or afraid that we are becoming less human because of the presence of the technologies. In this conversation with millenials, there is a distinct shift. They were not talking about making human beings like machines. They were thinking of machines through human values. Responsive, smart, responsible, dependable ó attributes that we have always given to human beings are now being located in the gadget. We are not merely asking that humans around us, mere mortals that we are, be created in the image of the machine.
Instead, we are thinking of the machine as a human, and moaning that they are not more so. This is a new form of intimacy that is unprecedented. Because we have loved our machines, coveted our machines, used them for penetrative pleasures, and often wished that the people around us were more like them.
For digital natives, though, it seems to