Who are you on Facebook now

Written by New York Times | Updated: Apr 13 2014, 18:02pm hrs
FacebookNo, those are not spelling mistakes but 50 possibilities of gender identification on offer now at the site. Reuters
ON HIS drivers licence and passport, at his doctors office and insurance company, for online dating and social media, and on every application or document that requires checking a box for gender, 24-year-old Ryley Pogensky is a male. But to his friends on Facebook, he is now a trans man.

Facebook recently announced that it would offer users 50 different possibilities and permutations of gender identification. In the gender category under Basic Information, the box now includes such custom choices as non-binary, intersex, neutrois, androgyne, agender, gender questioning, gender fluid, gender variant, genderqueer and neither.

The gender project was developed at a hackathon an all-night coding fest at Facebooks headquarters in Menlo Park, California with input from GLAAD, an advocacy group based in New York. Over the years, weve seen a lot of requests for additional terms, said Allison Palmer, former vice-president for campaigns and programmes at GLAAD. It speaks to how important Facebook is in peoples lives. Having only two options was a big problem.

Some of the terms are not found in standard dictionaries. Cisgender is officially defined as someone who identifies with his or her societally recognised sex, but it has come to have a more LGBT-supportive subtext: Im OK with what it says on my birth certificate, but I realise thats not true for everyone.

Other people might see one of these terms and think its a typo, said Sasha Kolodkin, a 19-year-old student, who chose to be identified as a gender non-conforming transsexual female. Its sort of a secret language that not everyone will understand. I was born male and feel that I should have been female. But use of male and female is very confining.

There have been a number of successful, albeit temporary, hacks into Facebook to allow gender-neutral pronouns, so that a profile reads Wish them a happy birthday rather than him or her.

A lot of friends who are tech geeks did that, said Pogensky, who is a blogger. I think Facebook caught onto it.

So far, the new labels are only available in English to Facebook users in the US; it will take a while to figure out the translation of pan-gender in Japanese or Finnish. In a lot of languages, there isnt an easy way to express a human being without including gender, said Alex Schultz, vice-president of growth at Facebook. But were interested in giving people options to express who they really are.

Facebook has not revealed how many users have chosen to partake of the new options. Its not about the percentage of people who will use them, said Palmer, who worked closely with Facebook, but those who do are some of the most vulnerable members of the community.

Younger Facebook users may be more comfortable with public declarations, but some older users more concerned with privacy are coming onboard guardedly. I made sure to read carefully through the description of the options before I did something that seemed like a big deal, said Christina Mazzalupo, 44, an artist in Brooklyn. Its just Facebook, but its everybody I know.

Mazzalupo identified as androgynous. It was sort of titillating, but made sense, she said. Ive been out since I was 21. I dont want to be a boy, but I dont feel like a girl. I have feminine sensibilities, but have gotten more boyish in how I look, how I dress. My dad calls me combo-kid, and for my mother to tell me I look handsome was a big deal. Androgyne felt like a final validation, and Im quite old for that to be happening.

Aster Max, a 52-year-old graphic artist in Seattle, chose two-spirit, a Native American term that conveys having both male and female aspects. In many tribes, theres an honourable place for what we call gay people, he said. Among the Lakota, it was almost mandatory to have a two-spirit person go on a war raid as a good-luck charm. When I saw that offering on Facebook, I went for it.

Max considers his choice a bit of digital defiance. I came out of the womb gay, he said. I was a ballet dancer for 22 years. But Im making a choice to stand out. The more of us who choose a different gender, the better it is for those who want wiggle room. Im waving a flag in the face of others who might be more conservative.